Am rottenly confused and messed up! Help!!!?

the story goes like this...am married.used to work.now work from home.so have lotta spare borin time at hand.chat a lot.have a hubby who loves me a lot but goes early to work n comes back late n tired. now the issue here is....i try to find my frnds on the net since am not a very social person. been chattin a while now so have lots of them.they become special.they demand my time.i chat long hrs till late 4am n stuff. this thgh bothers my man he doesnt really push me to stop it.nor does he push me to stop any of my other bad habits like smoking. seems sometimes that he doesnt care or some other time that he jst wants me to handle it myself n understand it myself n stop. but then both smokin n chattin seems impossible to stop coz both have become good companions of my boredom/loneliness.wanna go out n work so that both ends eventually coz i dont smoke in public...but then since i left work 5yrs back am kinda gettin lazy thinking abt the travel n all that.am confused abt this Help!