How do I attain the abilities of a "playah"?

you dont want be a player, players are people who take advantage of other feelings that dont care about the person . they just seem them as another notch in their belt and honestly that hurts. just go as you but dress yourself up a little, get a new look, put a little spice in your attitude and most of all be confident. you never know their could be another girl that is interested in the samething as you are.