Les And Bi Females: Do You Like When A Female Is ually Aggressive?

Do you like if your submissive and she make the advances? Not in a rough manner but playful and sensual type of way. Does anyone see anything wrong with kissing someone that they hang out with for the first time? I was hanging out with someone who i been talking to for a few weeks, she talked about the future and welll I wanted right now. I wanted to get a little action but she didn't want it so much. I was not gonna just sleep with her and go ghost. I mean I was the aggressor and she was acting like she never had that before i think we all have. i understand being lady like but come on some of you females act like your saints. I would have been cool with a kiss but she said she would think about it. Not saying you should sleep around but playing little kiddie games is not a turn on. life is too short.